How often do we miss the moment to lead our people towards a peaceful solution or valuable learning during real life hiccups?

  • Maybe the situation is a sibling fight that requires mediation because things have gotten violent

  • Or maybe no assistance at all is needed bc mom playing judge and jury simply exacerbates the conflict between your kids

  • Maybe simply owning your reaction that led to a power struggle between you and your child. It does take two to tango after all and your the one with the fully developed brain, right?

  • Do you find yourself frequently going to that blaming place?

  • When there is conflict, notice if your brain asks:

  • Who’s at fault?

  • Blame blocks empathy.